“There was a huge chasm of misunderstanding,” Yang says in the latest issue of PEOPLE. “Neither side really understood where the other was coming from, and it led to very dangerous situations overall.”
Still, “what was always constant was the intention of love from both sides. It pushed me into questioning what it meant, what was protected and what I should be protective about in terms of being a queer person,” says Yang. “I don’t take it for granted.”
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The comedian, 30, told theNew York Timesin January 2020 that his parents found out he was gay when they discovered “lewd conversations” on his AOL Instant Messenger at 17 years old.
“They just sat me down and yelled at me and said, ‘We don’t understand this. Where we come from, this doesn’t happen,’ " he recalled. Soon after, Yang’s father told him he had set up eight sessions with a specialist who worked in gay conversion therapy.
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“There has been a nice shift where they go, ‘Great job,'” he says of their take on his fame.
Yang, who also co-hosts theLas Culturistaspodcast, first joinedSNLas a staff writer for season 44 and became afull-time cast membera year later in September 2019.
“They’ve just been encouraging in the purest sense. It’s not like I’m getting sketch ideas from them, and they know what the boundaries are,” he says of his parents. “They know that that job has been hard won for me, and that it means a lot, and it means a lot to them too. They think, ‘Wow, he pulled it off.’ And my mom said to me recently, she was like, ‘Bowen you’re very lucky to be doing this.’ And I was like, ‘I know mom.'”
source: people.com
