“He was so kind and such a gentleman,“Imanrecalls. “Since the day we met, until the last minute, when we walked down the street, he would never let me walk on the outside. He always moved me to the inside.”

“He” was Iman’s husband, the incomparableDavid Bowie. And in opening up about their26-year love affairin this week’s PEOPLE, she reveals a side of the man that the world never knew.

Over five years after his death from cancer at age 69, Iman has created a fragranceLove Memoir, a tribute to their “epic romance.” And while the combined wattage of the model and the musician was off the charts, she says their life at home “couldn’t be more normal.”

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Most nights meant Iman’s home-cooked dinners. “I’m one of those people that can read a recipe and cook it and not stress over it,” says Iman, 66. “Roast chicken with herbs for Sunday dinner. On Saturdays, he loved English breakfast, with bacon and sausage — both my daughter [Alexandria ‘Lexi’] and David.” (Iman and Bowie each had an older child from their previous marriages.)

Says Iman, “David got so used to my cooking that whenever I’d say ‘Shall we order tonight?’ He’d say ‘You’re not cooking?’ He was always in the kitchen with me. He couldn’t cook. He would burn water but he’d put music on and we’d dance, the three of us.”

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The couple took turns picking up Lexi from school and Bowie always stopped for ice cream on the way home. But being her father’s daughter did have unexpected moments. One day when Lexi was seven years old, she saw a poster of her father. “That’s Daddy,” Iman recalls her saying. “And then she asked, ‘But why is he called Bowie?'”

“Our daughter had no idea of his fame. By the time she was born, David had decided not to tour as much. Her name is Alexandria Jones,” adds Iman, referencing Bowie’s given name, David Robert Jones, “but she could see when he came to school people would look at him differently.”

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Once she got a little older, she found Ziggy Stardust a bit intriguing. “When she saw a picture of him as Ziggy Stardust with red hair and makeup, she did not ask why is he wearing makeup?” says Iman with a laugh. “Only about his red hair. That’s a New York girl!”

One constant in their life was Bowie’s love of art in all its forms. “David could read three of four books at a time and everything he read somehow made it into his music,” says Iman. “The way he created things was unique. A lot of reading, painting and sculpture, and then it all gets sifted and something new comes of it.”

The same might be said for how she incorporated various notes of fragrance they both loved, sifted through her memories, to create Love Memoir, available exclusively on HSN andhsn.com. “Creating the fragrance, putting in the vetiver of David (his favorite cologne was Tom Ford’s Grey Vetiver) and the bergamot from Tuscany, where we were married, putting those together, I have a fragrance that is both him and I.”

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And though she once wore his favorite Vetiver cologne in remembrance, she says, “now not so much. I wear Love Memoir, because this one is the two of us.”

source: people.com